Once a moment is avoided, a world view of division and separation springs forth, accompanied by a compelling narrative that justifies the aversion. Now we are in full armor with the world as our adversary, tying us to a ceaseless argument with it.
There is more to desire than suffering. Can we make a gradual change in how we relate to desire, without rejecting our vitality but with a capacity to tolerate the inevitable failure of all grasping?
Patience and Persistence (Determination)
are the paramis that can bring change to our practices and to our lives. They are the perfect twins-they support and empower one another.
Each is to be developed separately but needs the other for fruition. Together they create possibility unto-fore unimagined.